It hurts when you break up with the person you were so sure you would spend forever with. It takes time to process and move on and sometimes, you may even think he would maybe come back to you and you are also simultaneously looking for signs you will never get back together with him again. You are left confused, and your heart may be giving you various clues, making you think it is possible for you guys to come back together again. Well, if you are confused, here are some sure signs to know if your ex is coming back or not.
If your ex blocks you on all fronts and hooks up with a new woman, it is a sign that you will never get back together with him again. These signs can be an indication for you to move on and have a blissful life.
50 signs you will never get back together with your ex
1. He no longer calls you or responds to your calls:
When your ex is well and truly over you, he would avoid your calls and he would not bother to call you back.
2. He blocked you:
When your ex blocks you or changes his number because of you, then he is done with you and no longer wants any part of you.
3. He returns all your things:
When your ex returns your stuff with him, it means that he is over you and he doesn’t want anything that would remind him of you anymore.
4. He doesn’t encourage your effort:
You may be doing everything within your powers to get him back but if he is not encouraging you or he is taking your effort for granted, it means he is over you.
5. He is not making an effort to talk things through:
When your ex does not make an effort to talk things through or he does not tell you how much he misses you then he is over you.
6. He tells you straight out:
When your ex is never getting back together with you, he may come out straight and tell you without bothering to beat around the bush, he will tell you that he is tired of you.
7. His family no longer wants you around:
When your ex’s family that used to love you no longer wants you around or no longer wants you around them, it means that you and your ex are never getting back together.
8. He has no interest in seeing you:
If your ex still wants you back, he would try everything possible to see you, but when he has no interest in seeing you, it means he doesn’t want you back.
9. He feels irritated because of you:
When you bump into your ex on the road and he acts irritated and unexcited to see you, it means he is no longer interested in you.
10. He makes posts about his new date on social media:
When your ex still wants to get back with you, he would be skeptical about posting his date on social media, but when he is well and truly over you he no longer cares if you see them or not.
11. He no longer minds if you date other people:
When he no longer wants to come back to you he would not mind if you date other people, he may even encourage you to meet new people.
12. He says you deserve someone better:
This is the most commonly used line when your ex no longer wants you, he would tell you that you deserve someone better than him.
13. He is very happy:
When your ex no longer wants you, he would be very happy and content without you in his life.
14. He chose someone over you:
If your ex dumped you for someone else, it is clear that he is not coming back to you.
15. He told you to move on:
If he told you to move on, he is not coming back.
16. He deleted you from his social media:
When your ex deletes all traces of you from his social media accounts, it means that he is never coming back to you.
17. He doesn’t want to hang with you:
If he keeps making excuses not to hang out when he knows you would be there, then he is not coming back.
18. He married someone else:
This is the ultimate sign that he is not coming back. When he is married to someone else or he is engaged to somebody else.
19. He doesn’t speak well of you:
When your ex starts bad-mouthing you to your mutual friends and his family, it means he is no longer interested.
20. Your friends tell you to move on:
When your friends and his friends tell you to move on, it means they are seeing something you are not seeing, which means that the relationship is over.
21. He moved far from you:
When your ex moved far from you may be because of school or work, then he is truly over you and does not plan on getting back to you.
22. He wants to remain friends:
When your ex tells you that he wants to be just friends, it means he is over you and he is not coming back.
23. He is flaunting his new girl on his social media:
If your ex is posting his new girl on his social media accounts, it means that he is over you.
24. You were toxic:
When your relationship was filled with toxicity coming majorly your you, your ex may never want to get back with you especially if you were violent or abusive.
25. Your conversation is no longer lively:
When your ex is always in a hurry to end the conversation or the conversation is now dull or boring, it means he is over you.
26. He is avoiding your friends and family:
When your ex starts to avoid your friends and family, it means he no longer wants you or any reminder of you.
27. You have a feeling:
Most times even before your ex tells you he has moved on, you get this strong gut feeling that he is not coming back to you.
28. He changed:
Most times, you may remain friends with your ex and you guys may vibe properly, but when he no longer wants you in his life, you would notice a drastic change in his behavior towards you.
29. He is avoiding eye contact:
He is avoiding eye contact with you because he has moved on and he no longer wants to share that special bond with you.
30. He flat-out refused to get back together:
You may still have feelings for him so you try and reconcile with him, but he would reject you flat out, which means he is never coming back to you.
31. He is a Casanova:
If your ex is a chronic player, it means that once he dumps you he has no plan of ever coming back to you.
32. He hates you:
33. He keeps embarrassing you:
If your ex plans to come back, he won’t embarrass you in public, but when he is truly over you, he would keep making fun of you when he gets the opportunity.
34. He keeps partying around:
When your ex has no plan of coming back to you, he would move on with his life and enjoy himself to the fullest by going out to party.
35. He changed his dress sense:
When your ex starts to dress better after breaking up and he is improving on himself and trying to focus more on himself, it means that he is not coming back to you.
36. He changed his lifestyle:
If your ex changed his lifestyle, then he won’t be the same person you were with before and as such, he may not want you back again because you do not fit into his new life.
37. He never really liked you:
When your ex never really likes you, he may not want to come back to you after the breakup because he never really cared.
38. He no longer finds you sexy:
Another sure sign he is never coming back is if he no longer finds you sexy before the breakup.
39. He was the one that requested the break up:
When your ex was the one who dumped you, it means he is over you and he is never coming back.
40. He doesn’t trust you:
Another clear sign your ex is never coming back to you is that he doesn’t trust you and can’t have anything to do with you again.
41. His responses are just polite:
When your ex no longer wants you back, he responds to you politely and indifferently.
43. You guys have been apart for too long:
If you and your ex have been apart longer than you were together in the first place, it means that he is not going back to you.
44. He takes back his things:
When your ex comes and takes all of his stuff from your apartment or the things he gave you to hold for him, it means that he is no longer coming back to you.
45. He no longer communicates with you:
When he is well and truly done with you, he would stop all forms of communication, and communication is key to any relationship.
46. He avoids physical contact:
When your ex is never coming back to you, he tries as much as possible, not to initiate physical contact so as not to give you the wrong message.
47. He no longer remembers important events:
When your ex no longer remembers your birthday or important event or stuff about you, it means that he is very you truly.
48. He is no longer nice to you:
When you guys broke up freshly, he was still acting nice and patient with you but after some time he is no longer nice and he is impatient with you which means that he no longer wants you back.
49. He no longer asks about you:
He no longer asks your friends and family about you, he does not care about your well-being anymore, which means he is over you.
50. He takes important decisions without you in mind:
When your ex starts to make important decisions without talking to you or without thinking of you, it means he is over you.
How to react when you find out you can never get back together with your ex
Moving on can be difficult and painful, but when you realize that your ex no longer wants you, it is time to move on and focus on your well-being. You can let it all out by crying or hanging out with friends which can also make you feel better. You can vent to them about your feeling, but do not leave your feelings bottled in.
Am I wasting my time trying to get back together with my ex?
If you feel like your ex is interested in you and there is a chance that you both can get back together, then you are not wasting your time trying to get back with him. But on the other hand, if your ex already made it clear that he is never getting back together with you and you are still trying to get back with him, you are wasting your time.
I feel emotionally damaged because we will never get back together: what to do?
When you break up with your ex and you feel emotional damage, the best thing to do is to visit a therapist that can help you work through your emotions and try to understand what you are feeling.
Break-up can hurt and can cause to you question yourself but you have to remember who you are, don’t let your emotions rule you. Don’t let him see you damaged. Take care of the sled, and focus on your personal growth and development. Channel all of that pain into something else that can make your life better.
What if he comes back?
If he comes back, you should think about what you want and how it will affect you, and if you are already dating someone else, you have to think about how it will affect that person too. Also, you need to take your time before responding to him, don’t hurry into responding to him. Make him wait and try to keep your response simple. Try to find out what he wants, do not rush in and regret it later when you find out he came for rebound sex.
Will I find someone else after not coming back to my ex?
You are beautiful, strong, and independent, so why are you questioning your worth? Why let one failed relationship mess with your self-worth? So, yes queen, you would find someone ten times better and more reliable than your ex, you deserve love and you would get it.
Break up can hurt and it is hard to get over, but the most difficult part is when you still love them but they no longer love you, so you have to try and let go, it may not be easy but you can let go and come out stronger and better.