When a man has moved on, you might spot his decision easily. But due to some reasons, you might also not spot these signs till later on. This is why this conversation is crucial for women.
Not all men act the same way. And this could be due to the difference in their zodiac sign. The way a Gemini moves on varies from the way other zodiac signs take a walk.
A Capricorn man can move on from you differently from an Aquarius man. This is because various zodiac signs have different personalities and feelings toward love.
No one enjoys it when a man moves on from them, especially when they least expect it. We want to be with people we have deep affection for. But in life, our dice don’t always produce the numbers we desire when rolled.
Some men might posit that they’re done with holding on. They might reel out different excuses to defend their decision to quit.
The men we’re focusing on in this article also have a unique way of revealing to their partners that they are done. A few of the attestations that he is done with you have been highlighted in the next paragraph.
Men under the Gemini sign tend to bore you. Refuse to listen to you, make you confused about your feelings, and cut you off when they’re done with you.
It is crucial for women to know the signs that reveal the intention of a Gemini boyfriend to quit. One key reason you should have this information is to know what actions to take next and how to be prepared.
The Gemini man in love
A man who has deep affection for you will make things easier and more interesting for you. Men who belong to the Gemini fold may find it difficult to show signs of love. This is because he has a personality of being flirty and fun-loving. You might find it difficult to tell if he has great affection for you or if he’s only scheming.
When he has deep affection, he gives you way more than he asks of you. He is willing to go the extra mile for you to ensure you are okay. He will bring you wine, chocolate, flowers, and another thoughtful gift to reveal he cares
Communication is one area these men are very good at. When he has deep affection for you, he will communicate with you in every way possible. Whether through phone calls, text messages, email, or social media, he will get through to you anyway.
He always wants to spend his free time with you. If he loves you, he cannot stand the thought of being far away from you. He always wants to be with you at every opportunity he gets.
When these men have a great liking for you, they are free and not shy. He is happy to be around the person he loves. He is playful and forgets about his shy nature.
When a Gemini man is done with you
- There is always an early warning sign when he is tired of you. When you are talking, he no longer bothers himself about what you have to say or even your presence. He may be scrolling through his phone, or his attention may be elsewhere.
- He no longer cares about you to spare your feelings. Once a Gemini is done with you, every sense of emotional attachment to you is gone as well. He loses his polite tone with you and sometimes often becomes rude while talking to you.
- Gemini men find it difficult to hide their feelings and thoughts. So when they no longer want you, he comes out and says it. He doesn’t beat around the bush when he wants to be free from you to date other people.
- Another classic sign a Gemini man is done with you is that he ignores your texts and calls. He no longer cares if he talks to you or not. And most times, it makes it obvious to you that he reads your text but he chooses to Ignore you.
- Immediately you detect that he has blocked you, just know that it is over. It may come as a big shock to you but to him, it is nothing. He is just done with you.
- Well, Gemini men have this habit of disappearing for days on end and then coming back as if nothing had happened. But when he is finished with you, he will pull his disappearing act with you, but this time he won’t bother to come back.
- Gemini men have a knack for cutting off all ties. They block all the effort you make to see them. And on the road when you meet them, they pretend as if you don’t exist and that they have never met you before.
- When he is bored with you, know he is done with you. Especially if he is a man that has short-span attention. So once he is worn out or he no longer sees you as new and fanciful, then he is done with you.
- When he has deep affection for you, he takes your needs and priorities into consideration. But as soon as he gets tired of you, he begins to prioritize himself again. He doesn’t care about your needs.
- He no longer keeps up with you or your bother with the plans you both made. He forgets to pick you up because he no longer wants to spend time with you. And most times, he takes pride in neglecting you.
- When he cares about you, he still put in the effort to communicate with you. He doesn’t avoid difficult conversations. But once he is done with you, he no longer bothers to communicate with you. And he tries as much as possible to ignore your concern and confrontation.
- When you break up, most times, you try to reconcile. But when he is done with you he doesn’t leave room for reconciliation. He ignores all avenues for reconciliation and does not give you room to explain.
- When the feelings a Gemini man has for you start to go sour, he will no longer care about your feelings. He will tell you to lie and begin to do things behind your back.
- Gemini men cherish the women they love, so they are always respectful and do not cheat on their women. But when he is done with you he starts to cheat on you and does not care if you find out or not.
What to do when a Gemini man moves on
Giving a Gemini man space when he moves on is a great gift you can give yourself. He needs freedom. Most times the relationship might be choking him so giving him space to be himself might bring him back to you.
Letting him know you want to try again is another way to go about it when he moves on. After all, men do not read minds. So give him a subtle signal, don’t come on too strong, and if he is interested he will let you know.
Tears or erratic displays may scare him because they are not usually used to strong emotions. So when dealing with such situations, you need to be calm and rational.
But when a man pulls away, you need to show that you are high value. Don’t relegate yourself and think you’re trash because he pulled away.
Humans might let you down and bring down your hopes when you least expect them. But it’s time to raise your heads up and soar again.
Visit more fun places, make new pals, and read more books. Work on those wonderful ideas you’ve always had in your mind. Doing this will make you a better person.
Love is a beautiful game. If he moves on, you should also consider moving on. You should consider revisiting those areas your man complained about.
What turns off a Gemini man?
Clinginess is a huge turnoff for Gemini men. They do not like the idea that you need them all the time or that you desire to be with them all the time. They want you to have a life outside of the relationship.
When you are humorless or boring, it will cause them to find you a turn-off. They want someone who they can have fun with and who can make them laugh.
Expecting someone to have good hygiene is not asking for too much. Shabbiness and uncleanliness will kill his vibe. And if you do not have proper hygiene, a Gemini man will find you irritating and turn you off.
If you tell lies about everything, he would feel irritated. Especially when you tell more lies to cover the lies that you push out. Men like women they can trust and will trust them in return.
Will a Gemini man come back?
If you are pining for your Gemini man, you are in luck because there is a chance he will come back to you. If he still loves you, he surely will come back for you.
Men will come back when they realize that you’re gold. These men have a nature of returning when they realize that you are the best for them.
But you should be careful about opening your arms to him. He might still possess those toxic characteristics that made him move on. He could only be returning because he believes you’d accept him anyway.
Study him for a long while and see if he has worked on himself too. Don’t accept him back if he is toxic.
How to make a Gemini man regret pulling away
You must hold strong to your independence once he dumps you. Don’t go all clingy or try to force him to get back to you.
Improve your skills and be your person and hang out with your friends. He needs to know you have a life outside of him.
Ensure you make him miss you, and don’t be available for him. After all, you guys are no longer in a relationship, so he shouldn’t be seeing you all the time.
He might come back running and wanting to talk to you. Make sure you stay tough and refuse to hear him out.
After he breaks up with you, don’t offer him closure by trying to remain friends with him. Don’t accept that friendship offer. He does not need to get a happy ending from you. Leave things unresolved this way he will miss you.
When he closes that chapter with you, he can’t hide it because that is who they are. They don’t have it in them to hide their true feelings. And you can always spot the signals.
The only way you won’t be able to read between the lines is if you are so blinded by love. And you choose not to see the clear writing on the wall.
Don’t cry yourself out because of his decision to walk. Men who want to walk and not fight for their relationship are irredeemable. Believe that you’ll find someone who will love you unconditionally.
Let the past remain in the past. Gather yourself together and enjoy each new day. Once one door is closed, another definitely will open.